Wednesday, November 7, 2007

What Card Can I Do With A Sore Knee.

difficult relationship

Someone in the family, even if declared lesbian, she lives a good relationship with parents who live there with some difficulty, but there are those who manifest the discomfort of a difficult relationship. F. We call so a girl who says: "I have a bad relationship with my parents. Since I know they say horrible things that they do suck, they hate my girlfriend, who wish to die, who will never accept any of this. Offenses on the agenda. The serenity is nonexistent for over a year now. Prevented me from seeing her at the beginning, now we have given up but I will make life impossible. Passed on to me their tensions and frustrations and give me the blame for their unhappiness. I wanted to know if this is normal? There are many stories of relationships between parents - lesbian daughters who live daily conflict rather than peace of mind. Parents who try, with subterfuge or bullying, to prevent their daughters to live their stories because they go beyond the dreams and expectations they had in their place. They prefer to insult, denigrate ("best pregnant with a married man who lesbian" so they said), make daily life impossible instead of trying to understand what their daughter, loved until the day before, also made clear. Yet they know something about her that first did not know or would not understand. Of course, for every parent, is difficult to see what they have daily under his eyes, see it grow, over time change the ways of being and ask yourself, and every single attitude, which can be enlightening to many, for them it is just the manifestation of the personality of his own daughter . But why blame their unhappiness? Maybe it would be better to avoid creating expectations that are bigger than a child can carry on their shoulders, maybe we would hope that every child is considered a human being imperfect as we are all, including parents, and, as such, may decide for themselves what they want their lives relying exclusively on its own scale of values \u200b\u200bformed with their experience and lessons received. Maybe ... there are many. However, there is the dream of every lesbian daughter who at the time of its comingout with family, you can try all together to confront the new reality and understand that in the end is always the same child and begin a new relationship, more open, but we find that it is not always the case. Many times it is necessary to removal, separation. We hope that this is not for F.. Good luck.

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